Friday, August 28, 2026
ভাই-বোনদের মধ্যে বন্ধন উদযাপন করা উৎসব। ভাইয়ের হাতের মুঠোয় বোনেরা একটি পবিত্র থ্রেড (রাখি) বেঁধে রাখেন, যা সুরক্ষা, ভালবাসা এবং স্নেহের প্রতীক। ভাইরা তাদের বোনদের রক্ষা করার প্রতিশ্রুতি দিয়ে উপহার দেয়।
Dedicated to Sibling bond (no specific deity — blessings sought from family deity)
Both brother and sister bathe early and wear traditional clothes. The sister prepares a decorated puja thali with rakhi, tilak, akshat, diya, and sweets.
The sister takes a brief Sankalp — dedicating the Raksha Bandhan ritual to her brother's long life, happiness, and protection. The brother in turn resolves to protect her throughout life.
ॐ अद्य श्रावण पूर्णिमायां रक्षा बन्धनम् करिष्ये।
Worship Lord Ganesha briefly with akshat, durva, and a flower to ensure an auspicious start.
ॐ गं गणपतये नमः॥
Invoke the family deity (Kuldevta) or Lord Krishna / Ganesha to witness and bless the bond. Offer a flower and chant the deity's mantra.
The brother sits facing east. The sister lights the ghee diya in her thali and performs an aarti — circling the flame clockwise in front of the brother's face, as a protection ritual.
The sister applies a tilak of kumkum and chandan on the brother's forehead, then places akshat on top — each grain of rice a blessing of abundance and steadiness.
The sister ties the rakhi on the brother's right wrist while reciting the Raksha Sutra mantra. The mantra invokes the same protective thread that was used by the gods before the war with the Asuras — the one that King Bali received from Vishnu.
येन बद्धो बली राजा दानवेन्द्रो महाबलः। तेन त्वामभिबध्नामि रक्षे मा चल मा चल॥
The sister feeds the brother a piece of mithai — the first bite of the festival — from her own hands. The brother in turn offers the sister a piece of sweet. This exchange symbolises mutual affection and support.
If the brother is elder, the sister touches his feet for blessings. If younger, he touches her feet. The elder blesses the younger with long life and happiness. Gifts are exchanged — brother gives sister a dakshina (traditionally money or jewellery), and sister gives brother a symbolic gift.
The family sits together for a festive meal — traditionally including kheer, puri, sabji, and the sister's brother's favourite dishes. The rakhi is worn until it naturally falls off — it is never cut. The ritual completes with family bonding and shared meal.
This guide reflects classical Parashari tradition. Regional variations exist — consult a family priest for specifics.